š· This is the Worst Advice I Ever Got as a Swim Coach...
...and what you can take from it for your own motivations...
Hey Swimmers
In my early coaching daysālikely around the age of 27āI received a piece of advice from a peer that was said to be key to becoming a better coach:
āStop competing. Coaching and competing are in conflict. You need to choose one or the other!ā
At the time, I didnāt challenge the idea too much. It seemed to make senseāhow could I possibly give my all to my athletes if I was still chasing my own swimming and triathlon goals? But deep down, something didnāt sit right. I loved swimming, I loved racing, and I didnāt see why I had to stop just because I was a coach.
Fast forward 16 years from my first Rottnest Channel Solo Swim crossing in 2009, and last weekend, I found myself completing the 25km Port to Pub solo swim in 6 hours and 28 minutes (a pace of 1:31/100m)āgood enough for 1st place in the Vintage category by nearly an hour, 5th overall, all in less-than-ideal conditions. This is by far and away my best performance from over a dozen solo and duo Rottnest Channel crossings since 2003 and something Iām hugely proud of after a month off with pneumonia at Christmas.
A Slap of Reality
At first, my goal was personalāI simply wanted to see what I could achieve at 46 years of age. But as the months of training passed, my motivation shifted after I got a true slap of reality.
Here I was feeling sorry for myself having gotten sick at a key time in my training preparation, when I learned that three of my close friends are currently battling lung cancer, two of whom are younger than me. That realisation hit hard. The ability to train and race is something Iād always taken for granted, but suddenly, it felt like a privilege. Instead of seeing the race as a test of my endurance, I saw it as a way to express gratitude for my health and the opportunity to push myself.
Thatās why we named our little boat Seas the Day!āa fitting tribute to embracing every chance we have to do what we love.


After the swim, I was humbled by the messages from my squad, many of whom found inspiration in my performance. Not because I won my category, but because I was willing to put myself in the same conditions they train for, to push through the same barriers, and to race alongside the āyoung guns,ā no matter the outcome.
Marcus, whoās been swimming with me for over a decade now, revealed to me out of the blue on Tuesday:
āThe reason I joined the Squad in the first place was because Iād learned about your triathlon pursuits and then the English Channel and Manhattan - I wanted a coach who really knew what they were talking aboutā¦from experience, not a book or training course!ā
And thatās exactly why the idea that coaches should stop competing is so flawed. Athletes donāt just need technical advice, they need role models. They need to see that their coach isnāt just shouting instructions from the pool deck but is also out there, feeling the same pain, making the same sacrifices, and embracing the same joys.
This philosophy extends beyond meāitās at the very heart of Swim Smooth, and always has been. Every one of our Swim Smooth Coaches is actively involved in the sport, whether itās competing in open water events, triathlons, or mastering their own training. They donāt just coach; they live and breathe swimming. And because of that, they bring a level of authenticity and passion that simply canāt be faked. That's why, in our coach certification courses, we kick off each day with a simple open water swim and even incorporate racesālike those at the Best Festival of Open Water Swimming in Mallorca, Spain coming up at the end of May.
So, if youāre looking for a coach who truly understands what it takes to improveāboth physically and mentallyāour Swim Smooth Certified Coaches are ready to help. Whether youāre training for your first open water event, fine-tuning your stroke, or preparing for a big challenge, our team is here to guide, support, and inspire you.
After all, the best coaches donāt just talk the talkāthey swim the swim!
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